A 20-Something in the City
Thursday, May 13, 2010
On the GO with a Cinnabon...
anyways...
the kid across from me... probably 14 or 15... he's brought aboard a delicious, warm, sticky, cinnabon in a box, and is wolfing this monster down - like he hasn't eaten in months.
the smell is driving me crazy. i almost want to offer him $2 and rip off a piece.
i wish people wouldn't do that.
bring delicious smelling food on the train, I mean.
and just before dinner.
i accidentally called him a bastard under my breath.
okay, no i didn't. but i wanted to.
Friday, April 30, 2010
a new commute on the go
however, i assure you that it is an incredible opportunity and i am beyond excited. i can't believe i've already reached the halfway mark!
in addition to my new downtown commute, i have kept my part-job at a local spa and work there three times a week. i know it sounds like i'm crazy, but i have to pay the bills somehow!
for the last month i have been commuting into toronto on the go train. let me tell you. if you don't commute on the go train and choose the ttc instead...boy are you missing out.
don't get me wrong. the ttc is great for you down-towners, but the go train is a whole other world entirely. welcome to suburbia, i guess!
one difference i have noticed is that people riding the lakeshore eastbound to union train are very chatty in the mornings. once you hit minico station, it's game over. the train floods with perky people. well i don't want to be a downer, but it's 8 a.m. i haven't had my timmy-ho's this morning nor do i pay $167 a month to listen to you tell your work-buddy about what you had for dinner last night. ok. ok. it does make for some interesting listening sometimes... but is it really necessary to yell in my ear? you are sitting 4 rows away from me and its still too loud. please stop.
another thing i can appreciate about the go train is that its almost never late. unless the happy man over the p.a. system from the accessibility car says its "track maintenance" season... which it is... but so far so good. so... go with the go.
Stilettos in the City
Dear Men of Toronto,
a word of advice: women in heels hate to walk over subway grates.
be a man and get out of the way.
Sincerely,
Me.
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Inside and Out

I have some notes on my Blackberry where I write down my blog ideas as they pop into my head, as well as quotes or excerpts from things that I read. I do this not only to remember them for later on, but I do this to challenge myself and to remind myself of where I am going in life. There is one note that I keep adding to. I've called it "You are just fabulous" (I can't believe I just admitted that).
One entry reads:
"The fact is, you are totally capable of experiencing happiness, satisfaction and fulfillment right now. All you have to do is start living life like you count. Like you matter. Like what you do in each moment makes a difference in the world — Because it really does."
More than half of the quotes in “You are just fabulous” I have memorized by heart.
I was reading something the other day about paying attention to how you take off your shoes. It sounds very silly, but a lot of the times I struggle with this… I pay virtually no attention to the relationships, people, and things that I have at the moment and focus all of my energy on what will be coming or what I have lost. I constantly need a plan, and like the true over-analyzer that I am, when something doesn't work out, I replay different scenarios in my head. What if I had said this instead? What if I had done this differently? It's enough to drive anyone completely bonkers. When I’m busy I tend to ignore phone calls, people, and the things going on around me because I’ve immersed myself in my goals, failures and in my journey through life in general. Sometimes I know that I exude a stand-offish vibe, especially in these times where I am immersed in my own life in my own self-indulgent way. Sometimes I think, isn't that what being 23 is all about? Being a little selfish and focusing on what you want and where you want to go? I'm not really sure how to answer these questions yet, because to be honest, how I feel changes on a day to day basis.
But let me ask you this ... How do you take off your shoes? Do you throw them to the side with no care in the world or do you place them gently on the shoe rack? It’s about how much attention you pay to the things and the people who are around now — Everything which you have now. I’m still trying to figure this one out… And I’m trying to be more careful with my shoes...
Friday, March 26, 2010
Prime Minister Harper reaches out to the YouTube community

His video might not be as popular as a laughing baby, but Prime Minister's YouTube response to the Throne Speech shows that political leaders are attempting to reach out to new and younger audiences.
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Organizations trading in the water cooler for social media
I recently attended Talk is Cheap 3.0, a social media networking event held at Centennial College and hosted by Social Media Group and the Corporate Communications and Public Relations department. The night was a great success, and I was fortunate to be involved not only in the planning of the event, but to be able to attend two sessions during the evening.
Although it was difficult to choose which sessions to attend, I settled on one focusing on Social Media for Internal Audiences... who knew there was such a thing? Seeing as how most organizations have blocked sites like YouTube and Facebook so that employees cannot access them during the work day.
The session was held by Amanda Laird from Canada Newswire and really opened my eyes to organizations can benefit from integrating social media within their internal systems.
With technology constantly changing the way people search for, find, share and communicate information, its not the communications content that needs to change but the tools through which those messages are distributed. Employees want to be communicated with, and more importantly, employees want to feel engaged.
Employee connection = employee engagement = employee happiness :o)
So if you’re organization is still a little hesitant about integrating social media internally, consider the following:
- Transparency is a beautiful thing, and social media allows companies to have real-time, authentic conversations with employees.
- Social media knows no rank and thus allows all communications to flow from the top right to the very bottom, and side to side if need be. It also knows no physical boundaries and can be accessed across the world (as long as you’re logged in, of course)
- Leadership teams who use social media to converse with employees are generally well liked and well read by employees. Employees like to know that their leadership cares enough to have a venue for conversing with them. So cover your bases, whether its Twitter, Yammer, a blog, wiki’s or podcasts, there is a tool for many - so make use of them!
- Gen Y and younger Gen Xers are already used to the two-way communications that they really don’t pay attention to anything else. They give the most credit to the friends they text for information.
- Social media is a fantastic recruiting tool! Companies who do not make use of this tool are often at a distinct disadvantage.
Monday, February 8, 2010
The "New" Commuter

Since I have started commuting into the city of Toronto.... early.... very early...everyday, I have discovered that as “convenient” as public transit systems, like the TTC are...between the rude customer service representatives scoffing at you as you purchase tokens and the constant delays that make me late for class, the TTC really isn’t that convenient nor pleasant to ride at all. I thought to myself on my first trek down the Bloor/Danforth line to Pape Station, my stop for school... “Wow. This beats the St. Catherines bus system...I’m living the life of a commuter.” Call me crazy, but I almost felt grown up.
Since then, the TTC has demonstrated less then satisfactory customer service each and every time I have to buy tokens. I get stared at everyday by some creeper who doesn’t have something better to look at. I can’t tell if the guy sitting next to me eating the sandwich smells or whether it’s just his sandwich. Shouldn’t there be some form of public transit etiquette?